I often hear men talk about how they fall out of sex with their wives after a period of marriage. Is it to be so? I doubt your answer is “yes”
But let’s take some time here to talk about men in general and satisfying women.
I believe that no man could possibly be proud of being called a boring lover or hurricane and in my assumption; most women would not like to spend their lives or even just one night with a “Stallion” of such reputation.
Here are a few tips to guide your steps as I’d like to put it.
Don’t be too careful, phrases like “can I?” are not sexy.
They will just kill the mood. a good lover knows how to let the woman know their next step and how to prepare her for it with no questions asked. Sometimes it is enough just to look in the “undressing” way or a provocative touch to your girlfriends’ body to give a signal for sex.
Most women would agree that sex with no passion is boring. Just a time spent with no particular reason. No woman wants to become an “inflatable woman” (perhaps only with a very little exception) I’m not saying that every sex session you has to be exclusively tremendous, but just don’t ignore the fact that every woman wants to be a “woman”. Be sensitive.
If your girlfriend knows every crack in you ceiling- you are in huge trouble! But don’t panic yet; a simple change of place will help you out. Try doing it in your car or even on a beach (of course find a place with no viewers) the possibilities are endless. It is an absolute no to set up days for work. It is the ultimate recipe for boring sex. Turn on your imagination.
Moaning and talking
I once heard my neighbours going at it one afternoon and to this day I can’t make eye contact with them. It was as though I was in the room with them. it made me realize how thin the walls were. Well, it either that or the man was really loud.
Too loud moaning as well as too quiet is irritating for women (silence is also not an option). You have to play careful here try to find the “golden middle” and express your feeling t your woman but not to all the neighbours. Try not to use the same words during the sex as well.
Unwillingness to experiment
I was in a short relationship sometime back. it was “short” because this man, whom I adored by the way, never wanted to try anything besides the “missionary” and “doggy style” positions. There was this one time when he totally flipped when I brought up the subject of cunnilingus. I ended the relationship.
If you’re in a long-term relationship, don’t be afraid to experience. Sex life does get boring and there is a lot you can do about it.
Try different positions. Do different things. Role-playing gives a freedom to your fantasies. Do whatever you want to if your partners agree with it and it would spice up your love life.
Source:The Weekend Globe